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How to rekindle a relationship? 8 Ways to Bring Romance and the Butterflies Back

A good rule of thumb is that if you don’t put work into your relationship, then it won’t last. Whether you are in the honeymoon stage or you have been together with your partner for a long time, there is always room for improvement.

One thing that many people struggle with, when it comes to making a relationship work, is how to keep the spark going, in other words, how to make their love last. We all know about that amazing feeling of fireworks and butterflies that comes along with a new relationship, but, how do we reignite those butterflies once the comfort kicks in?

Here are some ways to not only bring some much needed romance back into a relationship but also let’s look at ways to see your relationship with fresh and star-lit eyes.
Tips for a healthy and happy relationship:

Regular date nights

One of the most important tips on how to keep romance alive in a relationship is to never stop dating your partner, even after the marriage. Couples who have kids have especially a much harder time reigniting that spark that keeps any relationship thriving. This is why date nights are so important. A date night doesn’t have to mean that you should hire a babysitter! Consider having a special late night date night. Put the kids to bed early and spend the night focusing on each other. To keep yourselves from falling into old routines, try to make it special and new each time. Cook a dish together that is new to both of you, or play a new game while drinking cocktails, that way you can experiment and try new things as a couple, and it will definitely help to keep relationship fun and interesting.


Screen free zone

One thing that can kill a connection vibe quickly is the introduction of screens. This can be anything from TV, computers to even cell phones. People spend more time looking at their phones, than being in the moment with each other. It’s simple, if you think about it. When you are looking at your phone, you are not making that important eye contact with your partner. This doesn’t mean that you have to leave your phones at home, just maybe keep them in your bag, while spending quality time with your loved one.

Surprise, surprise, surprise!

Everyone loves surprises. Even those people who claim not to, deep down they would be over the moon to receive a little treat from time to time. This doesn’t mean that you have to blow a bunch of cash to make the other person happy. There is some amazing beauty in the little things. Something small like a picnic, or a card or a framed picture, reminding your partner of the sparkle filled times is enough to ignite nostalgia in anyone. So get creative!

Get away

One of the biggest reasons that people have a hard time connecting is because their life is too busy. Between deadlines and conflicting schedules, many things can fall to the waist side. However, your relationship should not be one of those things. Even if times seem impossibly busy, it is extremely important to let those things fall away, even if it’s just for a weekend. Pick a weekend and stop making excuses. This doesn’t mean that you have to go far. Even a weekend out of town, exploring some new, unfamiliar place can add all the gasoline your relationship needs to take flame.
Discover new things and chase adventure together

What better way to get your relationship pumping blood again, than to get your heart to do the same. When it comes to finding thrills in the mundane things, adrenaline junkies are really on to something. If you are one of those people that finds joy in jumping out of planes, go for it! However, if you’re like the rest of us, maybe it would be a good idea to start small. Water sports are a great way to enjoy some sunshine, while also learning to trust each other through adventure. Try some whitewater rafting or if you’re looking to start small, a slow lazy river run will be enough to ignite any adventurous spirit.

The importance of human touch and tenderness

Sometimes, all a relationship needs to become new again is to rediscover your partner. In the book The Five Love Languages, the author, Gary Chapman, talks about the importance of lovingly touching your partner, he even calls it one of love languages.  One of good ways to express your love and care is to show tenderness to your partner by gently touching them, whenever they are around. It is important to spend some time getting to know your beloved, not only emotionally, but also physically. Human touch has magical powers. The warmth of another person’s skin is a great way to remind the person you love that they are still important to you. Start small with gentle strokes of the hair. Even little interactions like a touch on the knee can help to remind each other how important this connection and contact is.


Be open and honest

Nothing can kill a relationship momentum more than distrust. That is why it is so important to say what you mean and mean what you say. Secrets can eat away the foundation of a relationship. So if something has been occupying your mind, chances are it is also dominating the way you connect to your partner. Talk it out. Make your feelings heard and understood. If your relationship is strong enough, your partner should be able to handle any concern you throw their way.

Remember that no one is perfect

The biggest asset to any deflating romance is knowing that not everything will be perfect. Once you remove the rose colored glasses, you can see your relationship and your partner for what it is. This is also a great way to take the pressure off, so that you can look at each other in a new light. Even the most confident person can be insecure when it comes to love. Insecurities lead to jealously, which is toxic to any partnership. So let your partner know that you are not perfect either. This will put the two of you on equal playing grounds, so that you can work together to build your relationship back up.


Enjoy the spark

Once you look at your relationship through fresh eyes, it is much easier to find the ways to reignite the passion. It is also important to be realistic. Sometimes it takes much more than a weekend away to solve difficult relationship problems. So take your time and be patient. If your relationship is worth the work, then let the work do its best. You will find that with the right time and the right tools you can get those butterflies fluttering again.

Do you have other tips on how to rekindle a relationship?

Stay happy!


Source:Beauty and Tips

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